Woman are a fickle species, you can have them eating out of the palm of your hand one second and then cringing at the site of you the next. All it takes is one fart or inappropriate comment to ruin the persona you have strived to establish. Gentleman, for your reading pleasure are some very important dont’s if you turn a woman off when trying to hook up with girls online.

Patience Is A Virtue

Guys I know its hard to stay patient when you’re communicating with an attractive woman online with the hopes of hooking up, but keep it in your pants and the results will pay dividends. Being overly eager will no doubt turn a woman off and reeking of desperation is a huge turn off for any woman. So try to remain aloof and maintain a certain level of mystery that will leave her wanting more, hopefully so much that she’s the first one to bring up the idea of hooking up offline.

Dont Be A Creep

A sure-fire way to turn any woman off is letting her know that you have visited her profile 16 times in a week. Some online dating site don’t give woman the ability to see this information so in those cases go creeper crazy but if your on a site like PlentyofFish then you definitely need to avoid checking her profile too much. You don’t want to come off as obsessive or even worse a stalker because that will not only turn a woman off but send her running for the hills.

The Never Ending Story

Don’t send long-winded messages describing every detail of your life because no woman is  going to want to read that, and it certainly wont turn her on. I’ve said it before but I will continue to stress the point that you ned to remain a bit of a mystery. Women or people in general want to more about things the don’t understand or don’t fully know, so keep them wanting more instead of letting them know too much and boring them to death.

Self Diagnoses

The worst way to describe yourself in an online dating profile is “Always Smiling” or “Always Cheerful” This makes you sound like a nerdy douche bag since nobody is happy all the time. We have all encountered those people who are just way to happy all the time and you know it’s probably just a stupid facade they put on. Woman might want to date a guy like this, but were talking about hooking up, and being a super swell fella is not the way to get into a woman’s pants.

Down Boy!

If you’re communicating with a girl on an online dating website with the intentions of hooking up then don’t try to initiate a sexual conversation and start talking dirty. If you have made arrangements to meet up then sending a short message about how the anticipation is “bothering” you then that is innocent enough. When you’re in the early stages of communication don’t send an unannounced sexual message, again patience is a virtue, and you don’t want to ruin the anticipation by giving to much away to early do you?

Honesty Is The Best Policy

When you’re talking to a girl online avoid lying at all costs, exaggerating is probably find since this is something everyone does. When you’re sending messages back and forth its easy to maintain a lie since you have documented reference to look back to but when you do get this girl offline and you’re on a date its harder to keep all those lies in order, Judge Judy says it best “If you’re going to lie, you have to be very smart” Because if she catches you in a lie she will immediately be turned off by you and you will have without out a doubt ruined your chances of hooking up by shooting yourself in the foot.

A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words

Guys, I know getting your picture seems lame since this is typically something woman are known for doing. I’m not saying you need to put on your duck face and take a selfie, because that will turn any woman off guaranteed,  but you need to have a profile picture that isn’t a blurred photo of you and your buddies at a bar or a hockey game or even worse a picture of you that has clearly been cropped to remove an old lover.

Dont Pass The Expiration Date

Now I know I have probably said to be patient and play it cool about a thousand times but don’t let the opportunity to take your online chatting to an offline date. If a girl gets bored with your back and forth before it even leaves the digital realm, once you ask to meet face to face for an actual date then she will most likely decline. You will know when the conversation is started to decline and if you havent pulled the trigger by then you need to or you will miss your opportunity to hook up.

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