While online dating has become part of the world we live today it carries a stigma which suggests that most users are only looking for a hook-up or that their putting on a rouse to get what they really want, sex.

Everyone Is Just Looking To Hook-Up

While the online dating world certainly has its fair share of users and abusers there are people out there who are genuinely interested in something more lasting and meaningful. Recently there have been a lot of new dating sites and dating apps (such as Tinder and Social Sex) created that are geared specifically towards “hooking up”. This has helped eliminate some of the abusers on the sites which promise to find you love, intimacy and companionship. If these are the things you are looking to get out of the online dating experience then don’t give up hope.

Is The Art Of Seduction Lost With Online Dating?

The art of seduction is not lost when your communicating with someone through an online dating site, its just different. You may not be talking with this person face to face but for some more introverted people who have the best intentions this may be a good thing. Since normally these people would have a hard time communicating their feelings while the person their communicating them to is sitting right across from them staring with judging eyes. Communicating online allows them to articulate their thoughts by taking a bit more time to express how they feel also giving them an outlet where they can feel more comfortable to say things they wouldn’t be comfortable saying in person, but want to. This allows you to get to know the person better and take a bit more time building a relationship.

Can I Find Love At First Site?

In the times we live in everyone expects immediate results with very little effort put forth. They want to experience the fantasy of love at first site by instantly “clicking” with the person they have been set-up with, but thats not really how love works. Im not saying that you cant experience an immediate connection with someone but like Raphael Saadiq says “falling in love can be easy, but staying in love is to tricky”. There is no intention of gaining trust and building a strong relationship with someone,  just that you should immediately recognize that this is the person you want to spend you whole life with.

How Am I Supposed To Find The Right Person With So Many Profiles?

With access to so many members on a dating site people often get discouraged and give up to easily. The surplus of people online isn’t necessarily a bad thing since you have the opportunity to meet someone that you would have never met in your day to day life. If you stay positive and don’t get ahead of yourself, you will find someone who you can truly build a friendship with and in turn a long lasting meaningful relationship. My final piece of advise, if your looking for something meaningful try sites like Match.com, LavaLife or eHarmony. 

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